1 minOutcomesRather than projecting the outcome, I have conditioned myself to focus on the matter in front of me. I'm not sure which way the matter...
2 minAlinsky's Rules for RadicalsUnderstand the negativity in the world and recognize the tactics. Vigilance is our only course of action. Like my meditation teacher...
2 minUnderstand YourselfLet’s say you are in a multi-decades long relationship and you feel your spouse still does not understand you. Well, maybe your spouse...
1 minRead MindsAfter fifty-one years on this planet I have yet to be able to fully read minds. Well, not all the way, as in every word someone is...
2 minBrawl at the Post OfficeI went to the post office today with a giant box of car parts that I sold on Ebay. As I kicked it forward along the linoleum floor I...
1 minNot Becoming OneThere are people we come across in our lives whom we are better off not “becoming one” with. I can think of quite a few people I not only...
2 minPost Deleted (yeah, it's the name of the post)I overheard two elderly women talking over a burger at In-N-Out during lunch today. They were talking about the weather, which is a big...
1 minDeed BankruptWhen it comes to the expression of love between two people, there are a lot of different ways to get the message across. Deeds work on...
1 minComplete LoveBefore I became a father it was difficult to understand how I would be able to divide my love between the children I would eventually...
1 minLabelsWe place labels on each other and divide ourselves from the rest of the human race. Being a “mod,” for instance, means one likes a...
1 minRide the EarthWe will go through this life meeting just a few of the billions of others that ride the earth around the sun every year with us. We ride...
2 minCommon LinkIn order to stay in a committed relationship without a deity in the life of the two who make up a couple there has to be a strong common...
1 minWho We Want to BeI’m at a coffee shop late at night and there is a drag queen hovering over a vintage video game console. He’s in high heels and a...
2 minYou Looked Nice TonightThe man was explaining to his wife about limiting liability. They had just left a party at a mansion in Los Angeles. The couple hosting...
2 minTwo College CoedsTwo college coeds discussed their favorite houses as they barreled down the street in the big black car. “That one is cool, it’s got like...
1 minNot SurprisedAs my sons become men, their accomplishments, intellectually and otherwise, are more than I would ever dare take credit for, as I am not...
4 minChadwick and Mindy Heartless, Glorifying God One Deal at a Time”She thinks I paid a million dollars for that necklace. It's a cubic zirconia. I paid, like, $3,000 for it. And an extra grand to the...
4 minChadwick and Mindy Heartless”She thinks I paid a million dollars for that necklace. It's a cubic zirconia. I paid, like, $3,000 for it. And an extra grand to the...
1 minSuretyToday, October 12, 2017, during morning meditation I visited my subconscious farm and planted “Surety.” The attribute goes beyond just...
1 minThumbs UpSignificance is a need. Everyone needs to feel it. I think I realized this morning a way to begin projecting that others are significant....